Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Climbing Stud


When Johnny is waiting to be sent to a new location for work, like he is now, he tries to make sure and go climbing regularly. He enjoys climbing and needs to keep all the right muscles toned or he will be really sore when he goes back to work. I have seen him climb the palm tree in my parent's back yard, but never watched what he actually does at work. Today when he went to practice we all went to watch. The boys were ecstatic. They could not stop jumping up and down telling Johnny where to climb on the pole, to spin in circles, or turn around, or free climb like a monkey, etc. It was an awesome family outing.

It was fun to see Johnny demonstrate different positions they use while working to maneuver around objects, or reach out for tools.
Reaching out, one foot in.
Riding the pine!
Hanging out!
I went back home feeling really proud of him and all that he learns at work every day. I also felt reassured knowing he is using his safety equipment as he should. Yea babe!

Sea World 2012


We went to Sea World last Wednesday with an education group. It was awesome. It was only $5.75 per person to get in. I had 28 people come with me from three different states. The total group was close to 300 people. It was great to see so many of our friends and we could not have asked for a more perfect day. It was gorgeous!
Once inside the park everyone went their separate ways, but we spent our time with our great friends the Huber family.
Our oldest Daniel and their oldest Ella already say they are going to marry each other and that is just fine by me...in 20 years!
We stayed at The Heritage Inn by Sea World for a few nights so we could spend some time with them. So fun. The hotel was not great, but the beds were the most comfortable I have slept in besides my own! Some crazy guy in the room next to us saw us come up the stairs with all 7 kids and called us the Duggars! Wow! Great fun!

By the way...I have lost 36 pounds as of yesterday, but you don't get to see any pics of me yet!

Baseball 2012


Our first Little League season has begun and man is it a lot of work! And money!
Forget just the sign up fees, there are extra uniform parts, working in the snack bar, selling rediculous amounts of chocolate candy bars (you have to buy out if you don't want to sell the candy), all per child. This is just T-ball! I think I am going to lose my mind.

But the boys are having a great time. Even though Jaxon threw a huge crying fit in the dug out because he wanted the helmet Daniel wore to bat (and ended up sitting out the second half the game) I am glad they are having fun. And they look so cute in their uniforms too!

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

My First Tag

I just got my first tag, you're next.



Remember when blogs first hit the scene?
Everybody tagged everybody.
Husband questions.
Birth story questions.
Then it got old &
Facebook was better.

Tag is back.
I'm it.
And you're next.

[if you're not into it,
I'm not offended.]

Here are the rules of the challenge:
1 - You must post the rules.
2 - Post eleven fun facts about yourself on the blog post.
3 - Answer the eleven questions the tagger set for you in their post.
4 - Create eleven new questions to ask the people you've tagged.
5 - Tag eleven people and link them on your post.
6 - Let them know you've tagged them!
(you copy and paste this on your blog)


Melody's 11 fun facts:

[1] Johnny teases me every day about wearing sandals. I wear them rain
or shine. The only time I wear actual shoes is exercising or for something
like hiking. I even hit theme parks in sandals. I don't like the feeling of my
toe nails touching the front of my shoes when I do wear them, so I cut my
toe nails way too short and get scolded every time I have a pedicure.
[2] I put on makeup almost every single morning and I blow dry my hair
every day unless I'm sick.
[3] When I'm sick I will take a shower as frequently as I can for as long
as I can! (which is difficult in our trailer with our rinky dink tiny water tank)
A terrible waste of water. I know! Then I get in my bathrobe and go to sleep
with my hair still in a towel (hence the no blow drying while I'm sick). I wake
up looking like Medusa and do it all over again.
[4] I love ice cream and chocolate chip cookies. Just like my dad.
[5] I am allergic to bath oils, scented deodorant, scented fabric softener, and
makeup (luckily everything now is hypoallergenic). I break out in hives.
[6] I rarely ever drink soda. I never touch any dark colored soda. Gross!
When I was in high school I was addicted to Mtn. Dew. I realized I was
addicted to it and cut it out completely.
[7] I love to read. I'm like my mom when it comes to reading. I will stay up
half the night reading and suffer the next day from lack of sleep. Even if the
book is not that great I will keep on reading
[8] I was a terrible little liar when I was in elementary and middle school. It
was a phase.
[9] I am very particular about baby names. My naming rules are: No rhyming.
No starting or ending with the same letter as another one of my kid's names.
No clever alternate words with their initials. I require meaning, family connection,
and it has to work for both a child and an adult.
[10] I hate wearing a bra! Sometimes I will unstrap it while I drive then forget to
fix it when I arrive.
[11] I twiddle my thumbs. All. The. Time.
(you put 11 funny things about yourself)

Emily's 11 Questions:
[1] What was your favorite food when you were a kid?
Ice cream and chocolate chip cookies. Same as now. Oh, and brownies too!
[2] When you've got 30 mins. with nothing to do, what do you do?
Read, check FB or post on my blog.
[3] When was the last time you were nervous?
Right now. Johnny has a big meeting about work tomorrow. If he is sent
somewhere else so soon I will have the boys by myself until the end of
the school year. Three months of taking care of my 4 ruffians all alone
living in a travel trailer. The thought terrifies me.
[4]Which song do you wish was on the radio every time
you get in your car?
Taylor Swift Love Story
[5]What's the first thing you bought with your own money?
Big thing? My car. My parents provided two cars for me in high school.
An old VW Bug and a 69 Civic Hatchback we called Lambert. One was
always broke down so I switched off. When we sold the VW I used the
money to buy a little red car. I don't even remember the kind of car it was.
My boyfriend told me it was a good car and I trusted him. Big Mistake!
It overheated on the way home. Biggest Money Pit EVER!
Then I financed a Hyundai Accent and LOVED it!
[6]Do you have a friend you think is a BFF, but they probably
don't think you're their's?
I consider Ashley Huber and Janelle Schmitz my best friends. They're so
different but both amazing. When I'm with Ash I can't help but want to be
a better person. She is awesome and inspires everyone around her to live a
better life. She is a so sweet, considerate, and nice to everyone. When I'm
with Janelle I laugh and laugh and I know she will always give me an honest
opinion even if it hurts. She goes out of her way to help others and is a true
example of a righteous woman. She has known I was prego two out of four
times before my husband. I try to be a long term friend, not the kind of friend
that hops from one person to the next changing friends like underwear. I
consider too many wonderful women to be my great friends to be offended
if someone doesn't consider me their BFF. I would want them to have
many friends too. I would rather have many great friends than only one.
[7] What's the nicest thing somebody did for you last week?
Asked Jaxon over to play with their son. Twice. Ooooo that boy may be
the death of me. He is stubborn as an ox and as sweet as honey with those
blue eyes and melt your heart dimples!
[8] Is there a story your family always tells about you,
and it bugs you?
Not really. Well I did semi hook up with my step cousin one Christmas
in middle school. We would run off to hide and kiss every chance we
got. Hormones. Embarrassing!! Especially when he came to visit a few
months ago. Thanks Diana for spilling to the fam!
[9] When someone whines about their life, how do you stay happy?
Tell them it could always be worse...they could live in a 32' travel trailer.
Then I wait to see the look on their face when they realize that I actually
live in a travel trailer with 5 boys! Then I laugh. "If all our troubles were
hung on the line, you'd take yours and I'd take mine!" (Don't know who
originally said that but I love it)
[10] What makes you the happiest, really?
Johnny. Without a doubt. I LOVE THAT MAN! He is seriously the
best husband and father anyone could ask for. He is genuine. He is
caring and patient. He works hard. He is a great example to me. He
even does the dishes and bathes the kids! He is my everything. Every
time I look at one of our boys I see Johnny in them and I love them
all the more. It also doesn't hurt that his butt looks amazing when he is
wearing his tool belt.
[11] What do you wish you did better, you just can't seem to?
Wow, this post is already too long. I'll just put my #1.
I need to be more patient with my kids!
(you answer these, then make up 11 for your people)

My questions for you:
1- What disgusting or bad habit do you have?
2- Nickname?
3- Best discipline technique with your kids?
4- If you had a whole day to spend by yourself, what would you do?
5- Favorite smell?
6- First kiss story?
7- If you could change one thing (about you, the world, your family)
what would it be?
8- Favorite book & why?
9- Embarrassing moment?
10- What is your daily routine?
11- What in life gives you the most fulfillment?

People I tag: Anyone who loos at my blog and wants to take the time to do this silly self assessment.


Friday, February 24, 2012

Progress

Down 27 pounds two weeks post op! Down at least one full pant size. Feeling great now that my head cold it on its way out. My stitches were removed, but then one incision opened and rather than having a gaping hole in my side I had it stitched closed again, bummer! Now I am back on more antibiotics just to be safe. I hate stitches! I don't think others notice my weight loss yet, but I can feel it all over. Sorry, not confident enough to start posting pictures yet!

I'm still not hungry, but the smell of really amazing food kills me. It makes my mouth water! Of course that is because my current liquid diet is boring. Protein shakes are not exciting. Johnny made asparagus the other night, which I love, and I stood over it for a minute debating trying to eat it. I started to think about how I used to eat. I would eat fast and always clean my plate. I wouldn't really enjoy food. I would eat as I was running. Running to make separate food for Jaxon and the other boys. Running to get out the door. Running errands. Always running. Never thinking about what I would eat. Its funny that I haven't been craving sweets. I have wanted chicken! Now that I can't have it I am thinking about it. Ironic.

I have been thinking a lot about my addiction to food, because really that is what it is. The problem with food being an addiction is that it is not alcohol, or drugs, or cigarettes, or something that can be cut out completely from your life. You have to eat. I think this is an issue that many women, especially Mormon women face. We control every other area so it is easy not to control food intake. We don't smoke or drink (at all). What we do do is cook! Mormon women love to cook and bake! Every (ok almost every) social event we have has food involved in some way. Not just holidays! There is rarely a meeting without refreshments. And because Mormon women love to cook and bake the eating of what we make comes along quite naturally! I realized I have not kept the Word of Wisdom in this aspect. God made us all different and loves us all the same, no matter the size, but I know that this is one of the great weaknesses of my life. I know I can do better! And I will.

Sunday, February 19, 2012

One Good Day

Saturday was a good day! It was nothing too out of the ordinary, just a really good day! It was the kind of day that makes all the other frustrating days worth it!

I started out by putting on a pair of jeans I could not even have dreamed of getting into a week ago. I'm already down over one whole pant size! Yeah. Then we left the kids with a sitter to go do our taxes. I used to do them myself but they are much more complicated now. We are getting an awesome return! Thank you my sweet little tax credits named Daniel, Jaxon, Wesley, and Garrett! Booya!

Next we crashed a birthday party in Pasadena! My sister's daughter goes to day care and they were having a party for one of the little boys who goes with her. We were invited to come along and we were glad we did! There was a petting zoo, face and body painting, Pony rides, a candy table with bags to fill, a jump house, BBQ, etc. It was great free fun.

From that party we took off to mini golf with my family for my belated birthday celebration. Garrett slept in the carrier while we golfed. We had to keep reminding Johnny not to bend over while golfing. Luckily Garrett was strapped in!
Can you tell that my boys had a good time?

Jaxon accidentally clubed my mom on the forehead on the 5th hole. He has a wicked backswing! Luckily he had the only club with a rubber end. He still hit her hard enough to leave the outline of the club. She was a little dizzy for a few minutes but as soon as we suggested she skip the hole and take the par she was magically well enough to play the hole for herself. Did I mention there was a prize for the winner?

When I was little my Boompa (with his thick mustache) would pay us a nickle to nibble our ears. As we got older we would charge him more. Now my dad does it to my boys and they die laughing! After mini golf my dad was tickling the boys, but when it was June's turn she was not too excited!
It was a quiet ride home which I thought was due to the boys sleeping in the back of the car. Wesley and Garrett slept but the other two were eating bags of candy from the candy bar at the first party we attended. They had tummy aches and went to bed early without a fight. Glory be!

Johnny and I watched a movie and went to bed with big smiles on our faces. It was a great day and I'm sure there are many more to come!

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Surgery - I survived!


We're home now. I'm sore, but not in pain. The surgery was short but recovery is hard. Luckily I have not thrown-up since the first night. Johnny gave me a blessing and I have not dry heaved since. The other people I met who had the same surgery were still dry heaving three days later! I truly believe in the power of prayer and I know mine were answered!
Here is Johnny waiting as I walked into surgery. He is trying to defend himself eating an entire package of Chips Ahoy cookies while I was having weight loss surgery! Of course this was after the bag of Doritos. If you know Johnny he is saying "it was FREE" from the staff room!

I started feeling a lot better once they removed the drain from my tummy. The x-ray of my tiny stomach is crazy! I can only drink about 1/4 cup at a time and that takes me about 20-30 minutes! I am already down 10 pounds! Really I have no desire for anything. I am just trying to stay hydrated. I am home resting and walking to help my recovery. Johnny is off work to care for me and the boys. I LOVE LOVE LOVE my man!

Thank you for your prayers and thoughts on my behalf. I appreciate the love and support.